Showing posts with label Book Suggestion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Book Suggestion. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Stop Looking for Mr. Right and Marry Mr. Good Enough!!

wedding Yes, Maybe it is little irrelevant with the topic of my blog, but I think good and happy marriage life have a big influence in someone health. For a long time ago, I always believed that everything that other people seen from us is come from inside, from our hearth. The true health, beauty and everything will come out if we feel happy. For most people, the spouse is crucial if we will happy or not. If you agree, I have one book that could help you create a good marriage life. Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb.

The point of this  book, due out in Britain this spring, is that many single women get to a state of desperation in searching for a husband because they don’t make wise decisions early on, such as dating dependable men rather than handsome cads — the sort who take you to bed for six months, spend your money, rip out your heart and stomp it to a bloody pulp.

Her stark message ran directly counter to the neofeminist Sex and the Cityperpetuated mantra that we should all hold out for The One because we’re worth it. “Don’t worry about passion or intense connection,” Gottlieb wrote, “because if you want to have the infrastructure in place to have a family, settling is the way to go. Settling will probably make you happier in the long run, since many of those who marry with great expectations become more disillusioned with each passing year.